I have witnessed this truth more times than I can count in my practice.
A person walks into my space holding a quiet mix of hope and deep-seated resistance in their eyes. They state they are ready for change, ready to heal, ready for something new in their life, but beneath those affirming words, there is a silent, persistent question:
What if it doesn’t work for me, specifically?
They are searching for the finished product before they are willing to take the first, necessary step. They crave absolute certainty before they can offer trust. And I truly understand this need. When life has delivered significant challenges or disappointments, it is a very human response to crave proof and guarantees. But here is the profound truth I have learned again and again, both through navigating my own personal journey and through years of guiding others:
Your life changes when you trust the process.
Not when you attempt to micromanage every detail. Not when you try to intellectually outthink or rush your own personal healing. But specifically when you allow the transformation to unfold naturally.
